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The (REAL) Idiot's Guide to Social Media Marketing

  
  
  
  
  

idiots guide to social mediaAs a speaker marketing expert and head honcho of an inbound marketing agency serving speakers, consultants, and thought-leading professionals, I often find myself with prospects who want to get involved in social media but - sadly - do not understand the intent, ideas, or influence factors that make social media an effective tactic in their overall marketing arsenal.

How can I put this? Ummm... well, they're idiots.

Relax... IDIOT is an acronym that stands for the 5 key misconceptions, faulty assumptions, and pillars of goofy thinking that prevent most thought-leading professionals (YOU perhaps??) from generating maximum results from your social media efforts.

Namely...

I: I, Me, My syndrome

D: Dumb it down

I: Information without invitation

O: Over-selling

T: Today vs. tomorrow focus

Let's take a look at each of these in a bit more detail:

I: I, Me, My syndrome. No, your social media postings do NOT need to be all about YOU. In fact, if all you talk about is YOU - your company, your book, your blog, your brand, your articles, your resources, your tools, your programs, your products, your services... people will ignore you, tune you out, and dismiss you for the self-centered idiot that you are. (Please remember - idiot is an acronym used throughout this post.)

Experts promote other experts. Experts are not insecure about shining the spotlight on others. Experts are curators and pointers-out-of-cool-things. Experts post book reviews BY other experts FOR yet other experts' books.

As long as YOU can be counted on to share interesting, relevant, valuable, sometimes even edgy content, guide your followers to the "good stuff" online, and position yourself as a reliable sherpa in your expertise, you'll get PLENTY of attention, love, and respect. Even MORE SO if you're not a mental weakling who is focused only on hyping your own crap.

Grow up. Step up. Be a real expert and learn once and for all - it's not about YOU.

D: Dumb it down This mistake comes from the fear that if you give away your VERY BEST ideas, strategies, tools, tactics, insights and other secret sauce (yes, the stuff you get paid BIG BUCKS for with your paying clients!) that you will somehow diminish the demand for your paid products and services.

So you "dumb it down." You post that second-rate article. You remove some detail from that tip sheet because you want people to buy your consulting services and not do it themselves. You post the video that only has 3 of your 10 key ideas because heck, if you gave all 10 ideas, they'd never hire you to keynote at the big industry conference - you've already "spilled the candy in the lobby."

Yep - you guessed it: You're an idiot.

The reality is - it works 180 degrees the other way. The ONLY way folks are going to pay you the big bucks is if they have a FIRSTHAND experience of your genius - if they feel it, taste it, touch it, and fully experience it. ONLY THEN will they want more. ONLY THEN will they share it with their colleagues. ONLY THEN will they call their boss over to look at your website or email them your link.

Do you want to be SHARED - or do you want to be SCARED? Your call - but you already know which answer will make you more money. Unless you're an idiot. 

I: Information without invitation  Social media sites are not a dumping ground for your old, outdated, crappy content from books you wrote in the 1980s or articles that you could never get published.

Even rock-solid, current, highly relevant information is NECESSARY but NOT SUFFICIENT to fuel your thought leadership platform and build your empire as an expert.

Here's a secret - the internet actually does NOT need more information posted on it. Not from you. Not from me. Not from anyone.

An effective social media campaign will share information of standalone value and then INVITE a two-way (or 5-way or 17-way) conversation around that information.

Ask questions, seek engagement, invite involvement. 

Offer value, seek opinions, spark conversation - and ask the most powerful question in sales AND leadership AND relationships: "What do you think?"

O: Over-selling One particularly idiotic individual told me that he wanted ALL his Facebook posts to have a hyperlink. Every. Single. One.

Hyperlink to where, you ask?

To HIS online store, HIS products, HIS books on amazon, HIS speaking page, HIS consulting page, HIS services overview. He said, "If you're not linking every Facebook post to a selling opportunity, you're just putting a lot of dead-end junk on Facebook and you'll never make any money." 

Wow - this guy is a WORLD-CLASS idiot.

Social media is not about posting "here's how to buy my crap" - it's not about creating an extra dozen or so sales pages for your products, services or programs.

If your goals are: Sell on Twitter. Sell on Facebook. Sell on LinkedIn. Sell on YouTube...

Your results will be: Unfollow. Unfriend. Unlink. Unsubscribe. You're done. Buh-bye. Idiot.

Lesson 1 for you to share with your idiots: Content comes before commerce.

Lesson 2 for you to share with your idiots: First you earn their attention. THEN you earn their money.

T: Today vs. tomorrow focus The final mistake is to think of social media in the same way that you might think of outbound sales activity.

Think about it: Cold calls. Email blasts. Direct mail. Do those things and the natural question to ask is - OK, how much did we sell?

You made 100 dials, you connected with 20 humans, you had 14 conversations, you qualified 5 serious prospects and then how much did you SELL TODAY?

You sent 10,000 postcards. Requests came back for 300 quotes. So how many widgets did you SELL TODAY?

Social media doesn't work that way. Social media is... well, social. It's about relationships and trust. Relationships and trust don't have an ON/OFF switch - they develop over time.

Transactions happen today from relationships you built last week, last month, and last year. The benefit of that - and the reason it's worth the "wait" is that social media gives you a permanent asset - TRUST.

Blog entries are forever. They continue to sell your expertise, your company, and your value day after day, week after week, year after year. LinkedIn recommendations are forever. People that wrote glowingly of you in 2002 are still "selling" for you and your reputation TODAY.

A voice mail? BEEP - gone. An email? ZAP - gone. A face to face meeting? DONE - bye. Those happen today and they're gone today. 

Sure, you have to sell today. You have to make your quota today. You have to feed your family today. But social media marketing helps you ensure that what you create ONCE today works and lasts and brings customers and clients to you for many years to come...

Not because you SOLD them like an IDIOT -- but because you built the trust and relationships that HELPED THEM BUY today, tomorrow and beyond!

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So... what do YOU think?
Please leave a comment below. I'd love to hear your thoughts...

Comments

Thanks David for a great post. So true, in our busy lives we do need to find the time to connect, engage, build and nurture the relationships with our customers. Also, letting the customers decide for themselves that they really want t know you, versus persuading them that they should, makes a big difference in a long term. 
What do you think:) 
Posted @ Friday, September 09, 2011 11:37 PM by Anna
Anna, What do I think? I think your comment is great! Thanks so much for your insights about how "busyness" can trigger our short-term "sell today" impulse rather than make the smarter long-term investment in a permanent "social selling" inbound strategy. Appreciate your note.  
-- David
Posted @ Saturday, September 10, 2011 6:21 AM by Marketing Speaker David Newman
David, This is some of the best advice I've seen linked to any of the groups proposing to network and share good ideas within our professional community. The best points you made, at least for me, is to be open about what you have to offer; direct focus to good stuff being developed by others, and hook your plow to the "forever" mule. I thought this was great!
Posted @ Saturday, September 10, 2011 8:03 AM by Van Brown
Van - Thanks for the great comment. I love YOUR turn of phrase about inbound marketing and social selling is really about "hooking your plow to the forever mule." Amen! 
-- David
Posted @ Saturday, September 10, 2011 12:51 PM by Marketing Speaker David Newman
Great stuff ! Sometime o really have to prod myself to stop being idiot. 
Posted @ Sunday, September 11, 2011 5:28 AM by Mike
Mike - Yes indeed!! We all need to prod ourselves to ACT differently because "Sales 1.0" is over and "Sales 2.0" is ALL about thought leadership not pitches, dialogues not monologues, guiding not pushing, inviting not forcing, and MOST of all - it's about THEM and NOT YOU! Thanks for fighting the good fight and helping to wipe out IDIOTS everywhere!! 
-- David
Posted @ Sunday, September 11, 2011 7:37 AM by Marketing Speaker David Newman
I thoroughly enjoyed this article David. And could tell how much you enjoyed calling people "IDIOTS" despite the disclaimer. :-) My take away was how more benefits accrue from a long- vs short-term view. But in addition to "busyness" these days, I think financial stress is the real culprit here.
Posted @ Sunday, September 11, 2011 11:08 AM by Melanie
Hi, David, you're so right about social media being about relationships and trust. Which, as you noted, develop over time. Both "real" and virtual relationships evolve through sharing, extending resources without thinking first of pay-back, and building positive experiences with each other. 
 
Posted @ Sunday, September 11, 2011 11:12 AM by Janet Traylor
Melanie - Thanks! And yes, I did sneak in a little guilty pleasure despite the acronym. YOUR point is well-taken: Financial stress makes people desperate to SELL - no question. However, the sad, cold, hard truth is that THEIR financial desperation does nothing to increase their prospect's urgency to BUY. In fact, it REPELS buyers and that's the last thing you can afford when you're trying to figure out how to keep the lights on this month. Thanks so much for your comment! 
-- David
Posted @ Sunday, September 11, 2011 12:31 PM by David Newman
Janet - Bingo! And the strategy that works best in the environment you describe is to dig your well before you're thirsty! Thanks so much!! 
-- David
Posted @ Sunday, September 11, 2011 12:33 PM by David Newman
Dave, I enjoyed the information. I also loved the creative acronym. You reminded me that social media, is social. That I must build relationships first. I am about ready to step into the social media deep end of the pool with my big toe. Where do I start? Do I do facebook or a blog? 
Dr. Tom Tursich
Posted @ Sunday, September 11, 2011 5:01 PM by Dr. Tom Tursich
Tom, 
Thanks for reading and for your comment. Blogging and Facebook are both important platforms but so much depends on your goals, your audience, and your current level of content creation capabilities. If you love to write and have strong skills there, I'd start blogging ASAP and then use other social media platforms like Facebook to amplify, spread, and share the valuable content on your blog. That's an oversimplification for sure, but it's enough to get you moving in the right direction.  
-- David
Posted @ Sunday, September 11, 2011 5:09 PM by David Newman
David 
Simple truths plainly told. One of your best. Re-tweeted this. Thanks for this post. 
Gerry
Posted @ Monday, September 12, 2011 10:13 PM by Gerry Lantz
Hi David, 
 
Excellent article. I am developing a network of business owners who want to learn about SMM and this is exactly the kind of info they need to be reading. I shared your article with them and I expect to share more of your articles in the future. 
 
Don
Posted @ Tuesday, September 13, 2011 7:17 PM by Don
Ger - Appreciate you as always. Thanks, my friend!
Posted @ Tuesday, September 13, 2011 7:57 PM by Marketing Speaker David Newman
Don, 
Appreciate you reading and thanks for sharing. Seems like if THIS is our message we're trying to spread, it's job security for life because so many small business owners are stuck on "sell sell sell" mode that they try and graft that approach onto social media tools and it just fails miserably. So you know what conclusion they draw? "We tried social media - it totally doesn't work for our industry/ product/ service/ niche/ buyers. What a waste of time." Of course it is. Because they did it like they were hawking encyclopedias door to door in the 1970s.  
-- David
Posted @ Tuesday, September 13, 2011 8:00 PM by Marketing Speaker David Newman
Hi David,  
 
Thanks for sharing that valuable info. Love the creativity in the acronym and the lesson that Content Comes Before Commerce. Found practical to remember also that connection comes before selling. Thanks for your thoughts and ideas!!
Posted @ Friday, September 16, 2011 10:55 AM by DR. RAQUEL RUBIN
Sometimes the obvious takes a little while to be noticed.  
Thank you for your post David because it brought home to me the deep value of social media. As I see it now it is not just about connecting with people and developing trusting,working, healthy relationships but also about converting information into understanding (meaning) through our discussion and sharing. A practical everyday proof that we do not extract knowledge but rather socially construct it. 
Posted @ Thursday, September 29, 2011 4:19 PM by John Loty
Great post David some of the best advice I have heard in a while - I.D.I.O.T.S is a great take away and will use it in my next meeting
Posted @ Sunday, October 09, 2011 7:05 PM by Ian
Ian, 
Yes please do - spread the word, share the message, and help wipe out IDIOT-ness everywhere <Smile>. Thanks for reading and for posting your comment. 
-- David
Posted @ Wednesday, November 02, 2011 8:31 PM by Marketing Speaker David Newman
I wonder if some of the folks that are just "getting" social media haven't had a chance to read the Clue Train Manifesto published in 2000 yes almost 12 years ago...
Posted @ Thursday, November 03, 2011 12:13 AM by Christian Gray
Christian, 
Great point - and the answer is, of course, that they have not read it. So they're 12 years behind. Even more clear is that the folks who do NOT "get" social media TODAY are even further behind! Sad but true. Thanks for your comment. 
-- David
Posted @ Thursday, November 03, 2011 7:01 AM by Marketing Speaker David Newman
Love, love, love this, David! Every. Single. Word. Social media isn't a phenomenon or a technology, it's a dramatic shift in the way we want to buy. The "mad men" advertising model is dead or on life support. Personally, I think many of us have been buying like this for a while and social media has been the major tool to make the shift mainstream. Since being an IDIOT is what NOT to do, wondering if you have an acronym for how to be SMART? ;) 
- Mary
Posted @ Wednesday, November 23, 2011 7:39 AM by Mary Foley
Mary,  
So true - we have (finally) refocused our marketing and sales processes to align with prospect's buying processes! Why it took the rest of the old school Sales 1.0 folks this long to catch up escapes me. And YES I love the SMART acronym - how about: 
Social 
Meaningful 
Attitude of value first 
Relevant 
Targeted 
...blog post coming soon - unless YOU beat me to it! Thanks for reading and for your great idea!! 
-- David
Posted @ Wednesday, November 23, 2011 7:45 AM by David Newman
LOL - I just knew you'd come up with what SMART stands for! Oh no, you write that blog because my blog post is going to be on what it truly means to be a SMART ASS (for which I have plenty of material and keep gaining more). 
 
Rock on, David, rock on!
Posted @ Wednesday, November 23, 2011 8:29 AM by Mary Foley
This is truly insightful. I guess I have been an idiot
Posted @ Tuesday, December 06, 2011 4:38 PM by Darryl
Darryl, 
We all have. Still have to remind myself almost daily not to be an idiot! Thanks for reading and for your comment.  
-- David
Posted @ Thursday, December 08, 2011 1:36 PM by David Newman
Came across this a little late David, but it's dead on. In coming across this late, however, I was able to see how you demonstrated by example how to use social. Take notes people, there is a direct response from David to each of the comments posted. This is really how trust and community is built!
Posted @ Tuesday, March 20, 2012 11:21 AM by Jonathan Branca
Jonathan, 
Thank you so much for reading - and you're not late at all. It's an ongoing conversation! Thank you also for pointing out the importance of engagement and responding to folks who - like you - are generous enough to read AND interact. Folks notice when no one is minding the store - and some smart cookies even notice when you ARE <grin>.  
 
By the way - Jonathan has some amazing content on trade shows, exhibit design, & the power of doing business face-to-face right here:  
Trade Show Conversations  
 
Thanks, Jonathan! 
 
-- David
Posted @ Tuesday, March 20, 2012 12:44 PM by Marketing Speaker David Newman
The acronym has always been a hot topic. 
Who did not see his teacher back in the morning and expressing his cerebral morning erection through an acronym as a charade , proud of his enigmas : SWOT, SMART .... 
IDIOT is a nice and sharp one !
Posted @ Wednesday, August 29, 2012 11:13 AM by Jamal
Jamal, 
Ha! Classic - I agree with you. Thank you for reading and for your comment. 
-- David
Posted @ Wednesday, August 29, 2012 11:17 AM by David Newman
David, y 
You are exactly right! Great points.  
 
Everyone in business today needs to take 4 minutes and read this, then another 2 minutes to reread it. 
 
Plus, you are funny. 
Thanks!  
Mary
Posted @ Tuesday, January 29, 2013 10:13 AM by Mary Kelly
Mary, 
Thank you for reading - and then for RE-reading - and for your kind comment. YOU rock and I appreciate you.  
-- David
Posted @ Tuesday, January 29, 2013 11:30 AM by David Newman
Hi David, 
 
Thanks for letting your social media IDIOT engage and inform. Like Shakespeare's fool as the touchstone of truth, keep the IDIOT's voice alive and please continue to enlighten us about this new world stage of social media. 
My dear friend...and only true genius I know...Brian Dameier sent me a link to the Four Levels of Marketing. I poked around your site particularly for personal re-branding ideas.  
 
I have to tell you the Linked In video blogs were golden for me. God blessed me with typical, but equal, amounts of intelligence and creativity... He combined that with a core gift of encouragement for others and over-the-limit amounts of curiosity and optimism. He tossed it together into a would-be writer's romantic character and an early "I'm-going-to-work-harder-than-anyone" competitive spirit that was cultivated through a love for football. Bewitched by a passion that took me from journalism straight to a lifelong love affair with the advertising business, I am hopelessly an Adman...in the rare, heroic meaning of the word. I understand CEO pain points naturally, translate their problems into strategic intent and solutions...I transform their messages into visions. And I breathe fire into the creative process, shape message strategies from my own internal molten mixture of intensity and intuition. While the blade of the communications sword is still red hot, it is being pulled across my anvil of brand essence, refined by the repetitive force of strategic and artisic will.  
 
Oh, I'm sorry. I digress. David, what I meant to say was God didn't wire me for technology. So those tips help.  
 
Thanks for all. OH AND FOR THE RECORD: Brian and I were featured speakers at the Institute for Marketing & Creative Professionals in 1997. And that is when I introduced S.M.A.R.T. as a measurement for great creative: 
S imple. M emorable. A rtistic. R elevant. T argeted.  
 
Just As I Am, 
 
Robbie Davis 
Adman 
Innovation Advisor 
Strategic Visionary 
 
Posted @ Thursday, February 28, 2013 1:04 PM by Rob Davis
Robbie, 
Thank you for reading and for your detailed note. Brian is a good man and you know the old saying, "Any friend of..." So thank YOU again for stopping by and digging into the blog posts and other marketing resources here. Rock on! 
-- David
Posted @ Thursday, February 28, 2013 1:51 PM by David Newman
Thank you, David, for a clean site and a great post. The dates on the comments prove the forever rule.  
 
An early MacDonald's commercial had a memorable refrain: "You, you, you're the one! We do it all for you!" This is a good disinfectant for i-me-me-my-itis.  
 
You-oriented content does come before commerce, otherwise: "Unfollow. Unfriend. Unlink. Unsubscribe. You're done. Buh-bye. Idiot." That punch got through. Thanks.  
 
Warm appreciation for your ethical marketing style. 
 
Posted @ Thursday, February 28, 2013 6:43 PM by Michael Aschenbach
Michael, 
Thank YOU, sir! Appreciate your kind comments. Stop by again soon. Did you see my newer post about "ME ME ME" translation into "YOU YOU YOU"?  
 
The link is here if you're curious.  
 
-- David
Posted @ Thursday, February 28, 2013 6:50 PM by David Newman
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